The Kamani’s

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Hike: Grouse Grind
Weather: Cloudy with sun breaking through mid-morning
Hikers: Bill,Salim, Joe and Peter
Completion Time: 2 hrs30 mins. Approx..
Life Lesson: Your left or my Right??
“Ouch! Salim, I thought you said to step a little to my left to avoid the tree stump sticking out.”
“Oops! I meant a little to your right.”
Getting your left and
right is so crucial to guiding a blind climber up the Grind. One misstep and
down one goes. As a V.I.P. (Visually
Impaired Person) , when climbing the
Grind, I hold a 5 feet guide stick in my left hand and my guide (Salim)
holds the same stick on the same side in
his left hand. In this fashion, as my
guide leads me up the Grind, the stick
indicates to me if we’re turning
a corner or if the climb is going steeper or levelling off as we traverse left
and right . Picture , if you will, as my
guide (Salim) turns around and tells me
to step a little to my “left” to avoid a tree stump or rock jutting out on “my” (not “his”) left side.
In doing so, I
actually step into the tree or rock
that’s on my left side. Ouch! As opposed to avoid it by stepping to my “right”. From my Guide’s
perspective he is telling me to take one step re “his” left not mine” When
turning around, looking behind towards me, “his” left is “my” right. He should
actually tell me to step right to avoid the tree stump or rock to my eft.
How often, in life, do we hav difficulty taking the
perspective of the other person but look
at the other person only from our own filtered glasses.“Whew! Salim, you got the “right” and “left” right this time. Otherwise I’d be down the mountain going around this corner. Excellent!”
Hike: BC MC (B.C.
Mountaineering Club) Trail
Date: July 10, 2016Weather: Hot Sun
Completion Time: 3
hrs approx..
Life Lesson: We don’t have eyes behind our heads.
Salim: Watch out for
the loose rock coming up. Be sure to step farther right of the pathway as we
climb this next section of the trail.”
Bill: Ok, but how far to the right?
Salim: I don’t know .
I’m concentrating on the next few
steps and can’t turn around to tell you. I need to focus ahead so I won’t slip
down the mountain myself. Safiya, can
you help Bill from behind. I don’t have
eyes in the back of my head to guide him.”
Safiya: Sure. I’ve got his back. Bill,
step about 6 inches to the right and put your foot about
a few inches above the ahead to avoid the medium sized root where you’ve step.
As we climbed up the BC MC trail, it is not my guide in
front of me who is able to tell me in
detail where to step and not to step to avoid
tripping over a protruding root near my foot or a loose rock I’m
about to step on. It is the person behind me watching my every
move climbing up the trail who can tell
me where to step or not to step given their front view of my every move. The
Guide in front of me does not have eyes in the back of his head to assist in this way. I have found this is a
case in life. our lives . We need those people in our lives who sees what we are
doing to help us navigate life’s pathways.
Thanks to Safiya, I was able to finish the BC MC trail
without tripping over any roots or stepping on
loose rocks that might have caused any major injuries.
Until the next hike..
Bill (The Blidn Guy
who thinks he can see.)